5 Signs To Be Aware Of Overly Nice People
Can someone be too nice? The answer is "yes"! There are lots of fake people out in the world. Many people claim they are nice. These are five signs to be aware of overly nice people.
Have you ever met someone too nice? How many people are too kind? Is it possible to be too thoughtful? The answer is “yes’!
You may have even been the person who suffered from niceness.
These are five signs to be aware of overly nice people.
Victim Complex
The first reason many people are friendly is that they suffer from the victim complex. This is also called the martyr complex. People suffering from the victim complex will sacrifice their well-being, happiness, health, and finances to show they care about others. In the background, this creates negative feelings of anger and contentment toward others, but they will fake that they are happy.
This is because overly friendly people put up a fake facade of being selfless by always putting other people’s needs before their own. In return, they want to be treated like royalty and be praised for their niceness.
They Don’t Allow Themselves To Experience The Full Range Of Human Emotions
Being kind is their default. They do not allow themselves to experience or at least display the full range of human emotions to others: happiness, sadness, fear, disgust, anger, and surprise.
They only display a facade of happiness so people think they are nice. Overly friendly people do this to make others perceive them as kind.
People Who Say They Are Nice Rarely Are Kind
People will say they are nice when they are not kind. They say this because they often overcompensate for another part of their life. This should be an immediate red flag to anyone.
Being too nice can be a form of manipulation. This will be discussed further below.
They Are Annoying
They think that being friendly always is what people want, but they are annoying. Many do not realize that they are a nuisance to people. Friendly people also need to recognize that they are just flat-out boring. They are uninteresting people to have a conversation with because they are predictable. They become annoying to talk to because they always try to please you.
This makes them fake because they want to avoid having a real conversation. They are too afraid to go below the surface on a topic because they don’t like to be considered inconsiderate or not part of the in-group.
They Are Manipulative
You may not have realized it, but being overly nice is a form of manipulation. This is because being excessively nice is a strategy to get what they want by showing unwanted affection.
Being nice can be used against you. You will drop your guard around someone friendly. This is why it is a form of manipulation.
People are often raised from a young age that if they are nice and smile, they can get what they want. They learn this behavior. People can use this behavior, knowing or unknowingly, to manipulate others. No wonder people will put on their best face or outfit to please someone.
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Solutions
Do you recognize any telltale signs of an overly friendly person on this list? You have a few ways to deal with people like this:
You can stop spending time with them.
Avoid them as much as possible, like in a work environment.
You can eliminate them from your life (social networks, phone, friendships, etc.).
Summary
There is an overlap between many of these ten traits of overly nice people. It ultimately comes down to the fact that these people rely upon external validation and are people pleasers. They could never picture themselves being mean, even if it were done for a good reason.
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