You Need To Face Your Monster
Have you met your monster? Stop being a people-pleaser and a fake person!
Society Has Mutilated You Into Being Nice
Our culture says everyone must be friendly. Niceness creates a society filled with people-pleasers. Niceness establishes a culture of fake people. Niceness results in emotionally, mentally, and physically weak people. Society makes people believe that humans are naturally friendly creatures despite mankind’s violent history of war and genocide and that governments have killed the most people in human history. It does not matter the structure of a government. Politics attracts the worst personalities. They will do what they need to keep power by gaslighting and demoralizing the public in the name of the “greater good.”
The mainstream legacy media gaslights the public too. People believe the media’s gaslighting. The gaslighting leads to demoralization. Some call those people in power and the mainstream institutions “leaders.”
Society has spayed women. Our culture has castrated men. It has destroyed the male-female relationship in the name of “equality.” This brings you to our current society where men and women can’t get along on steroids. The women in our culture have attempted to adopt the traits of men (to no success). The men in society have become feminine and submissive instead of dominant and masculine (which is unattractive). Our culture has propagandized people to think they must be nice. To never speak out. Never question authority. Never think for yourself.
Most men in modern society have become feminized and are cowards. Most women are no longer nurturing or feminine because they have bought the lies of feminism. Modern society has inverted itself.
By being nice, you remain weak and will never learn the skills you must know to live and thrive as a single person.
Politicians and the mainstream legacy media gaslight and demoralize the population, then people return just like an abusive relationship.
There are no “leaders.” There are no “experts.” There are no “gurus.” There is only you.
We’re not for everyone.
Being A People Pleaser Is Killing You
You are slowly killing yourself by being a people pleaser. By being a people-pleaser, you allow people to stomp on you. You allow people to manipulate you. You let people use you. These people know you are a people pleaser, and you will do anything to make them happy. These people will gaslight and demoralize you to keep you returning to them. They know that as a people pleaser, they can use you to achieve their ends. You are their people-pleasing servant.
The people who use you, manipulate you, and gaslight you slowly kill you each day by making you waste your valuable time, energy, and finances that would be better spent on improving yourself.
It could be something as simple as making you waste your time. It could be making you come over to help them with something you really don’t want to do. You go over anyways. It could encourage you to join them in eating, and then they ask you to cover the tab. You do. They knew you would do it because you wanted to please them.
You’re A Fake Person
If you are a people-pleaser, you run a very high risk of also being a fake person. You have only lived the version of reality that culture has told you to do. You are likely a zombie consuming society’s crap: mainstream media, entertainment, doom scrolling on your smartphone, buying the latest gadget, eating crappy processed or fast food, and streaming videos your favorite influencer instead of working on yourself.
You do not accept yourself. You do not treat yourself well. You do not practice self-care. You do not practice self-love. You do not know yourself. You have not gone on a journey of self-discovery. You are responsible for where you are in life. One of the reasons is that you have not embraced your true self. You likely loathe yourself.
Admit to yourself: You are a people-pleaser. You are a fake person.
“I am a people pleaser. I am a fake person.” If it is true, repeat it to yourself in the nearest mirror three times.
You Don’t Need To Wear A Fake Mask Anymore
Society is overrated.
Society is stupid. Stop being a people pleaser. Fake people are not worth your time. Culture indoctrinates you to look up to celebrities, politicians, social media influencers, and people you are told to respect for no reason.
Our culture says you must practice and know specific “soft skills” to be socially acceptable. Don’t learn them to please people and society. The only reason to learn soft skills is to say sweet nothings to people you want to network to get to where you want to be. You can then spend time with the people who think you are actually worth your time. You can cast everyone else aside if they do not benefit you.
Make people earn your respect and trust. Don’t give it away for free.
Work On Yourself In The Meantime
It’s hard to find genuine people to have quality conversations with in a world filled with fake people. You are not alone. You can get rid of your fakeness by starting to work on yourself. You can focus on your health. You can increase your income. You can develop relationships with people you want to spend valuable time with.
You can start by stopping to please people and learning to tell people “no.”
It’s better to work on yourself to become the version of yourself you want to be. When you finally meet interesting people, you will be worth talking to. Most likely, the people you want to speak to are where they are because they chose to give up the same things as you. You can then have quality conversations with them. You may then meet the type of people that you have always wanted to meet.
Work On Yourself To Find Quality Friends
“Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.” - Dan Pena
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” - Jim Rohn
Who do you want your five closest friends to be? What qualities do they have? Whatever those qualities are, you need to learn and develop those skills. Work on yourself so that you can make new friends who you consider to be quality friends. You will likely need to better yourself to make friends with people who are also always working to improve themselves.
Eliminate fake people from your life as much as possible. They are time wasters.
Face Your Monster
Our culture does not want you to know you have a powerful monster. That is how society controls you. In doing so, you never knew that you had a monster. The monster empowers you as an individual.
You need to meet the monster hiding deep inside you. You need to meet your shadow. You need to know your dark side. You need to learn when and how to embrace your monster. Your monster can free you from society’s false obligations.
“If you only knew the power of the Dark Side!” - Darth Vader
Your Monster Will Free You From Mediocrity
You will know what you are capable of when you acknowledge your monster. Society has told you that your shadow self is not socially acceptable. Our culture has told you to suppress your monster because it holds beliefs, ideas, and powers that society does not think are socially acceptable.
In a culture that wants everyone to be mediocre and is collectivist, you truly discover the depths of yourself as an individual by tapping into your shadow. Finding out that the monster is good is the opposite of what society wants you to know about. Therefore, you must acknowledge your shadow. You need the strength of your shadow. You need to free yourself from society’s fake standards.
You can make your own standards. You can make your own rules to live your life by. You can make your life goals. Your monster, the shadow hiding deep inside you, is your guide. Nourish, water, and feed your monster.
Stop being a people pleaser. Stop being a fake person. Embrace your monster. Know your shadow shelf. Tell society to shove it.
Well there's nothing you can say to me now
And there's nothing you can do to stop me
It's hard not to be, a menace to society
When half the population, is happy on their knees
You've pushed me one too many times
I'm sick of all of the fiction, we're gonna settle it
You've pushed me one too many times
I'm sick of all of the shit, I'm here to settle it!
We’re not for everyone.